What is Inferiority
Complex?
An inferiority complex is a persistent sense of personal
lowliness arising from inner clashes of thought.
Also Inferiority complex is connected in most cases to physical
appearance but it can also be linked to wealth, intelligence, social status or
even personality.
This complex in my opinion is one of the worst, as you create
this perception of inferiority on your own and only you have
the power to remove it, making this complex very sadistic.
Some people struggle feeling inferiority for many years, some
struggle with it their whole lives. That’s why I’m writing this today to guide
you on the path to get rid of this problem.
What is the root cause
behind your problem, or any Inferiority complex?
Well in almost all cases of inferiority complex the can be
condensed to 3 main possible factors:
- Parental
Upbringing -
Disapproving nature, negative remarks, blaming the child for problems etc.
- Physical
Defects-
disproportional facial or body features, height, weight, strength, speed,
sports, vision etc.
- Social
factors -
race, culture, economic status, religion, friends etc.
In all 3 causes the victim of the inferiority complex is feeling
he or she is not worthy against somebody and that they are not good enough.
Remember only you decide whether you are worth or not.
Only you can decide if you’re good or not. The first step to conquer this
complex is to look at people who you supposedly assume are below you and try to
be thankful for what you have.
You might have big ears, but then there is somebody out there
who has no ears at all and is deaf so are you really inferior?
How to overcome
inferiority complex and defeat this mental problem?
An inferiority complex is made through thinking and over
analyzing so obviously the only way to overcome it; is through thinking
as well.
The first step after understanding inferiority complex and
understanding your problem is to break the problem down into chunks and deal
with it.
So essentially start out with asking yourself questions until
you achieve a positive result.
You must:
- Realize
that whatever flaw or defect you might have is not so bad
- Realize
that everybody has flaws and there are people with worse flaws then yours
( be thankful)
- Realize
that, whatever flaw you have it does not affect you unless you let it
affect you ( only you control yourself)
*Overall you must realize you are in charge, and truthfully that
nobody really cares about little things like ear size, height or any other
factor.
In the end you must be happy with who you are and know only you
can finish this inferiority complex that you began.
Good Luck on living an amazing life!
Well said about inferiority complex, because it entirely ruins ones peaceful and happy life. bounce back over the negativity gives us way!. Great sharing kalai
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